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Set A Dating Intention

Dating Tip #1: Be clear about your dating intention.


Why? Because when you say, "I'm just gonna see what happens" you are affirming that you are passively there for whatever comes your way (or doesn't). If you are ready for love, CLAIM IT, say it out loud (or write it in your journal). Love starts with a sincere intention, followed by the belief that it will happen. ❤️


Think about dating like you would any other category in your life. Most of us set clear goals to give us a target, and to allow us to measure progress with smaller goals along the way. Why are we so reluctant to do this in dating? Why are we reluctant to identify that we want love, much less to claim that love for ourselves?


What I see far too often with my own clients is that we are all afraid to be vulnerable, or to try and fail. And those are rational and typical fears. But, my dear ones, love requires some vulneratiblty, and we will all face some rejection along the way. You got this- and I can help you set yourself up for optimal outcomes with a little bit of work and faith!

 
 
 

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